Is this a Thai Massage technique or is it Partner Yoga? How do the two systems work together? When should you use such techniques? Find out all the answers below.
Let me tell you a story about the position in the photo above. Once I was observing some of the training of the “advanced class” in a Thai Massage school in Chiang Mai, Thailand. They were actually teaching this technique.
Something came to my mind right away when I was watching this: Your average massage client in the western world (i.e. possibly stiff, overweight, large etc) will either not be able to get into this position or will not feel comfortable in it.
Realistically you have to be a yogi or at least quite flexible to do this. You might have some clients like this, but they will most likely be in the minority.
Fancy Thai Massage techniques are often not very practical
Then I talked to one of the teacher/therapists in this school and asked her if she ever uses this technique in her regular sessions. She said no, never.
Personally I have been living in Thailand for 15 years and have had countless Thai Massages. No therapist ever did this technique on me.
So then why is it being taught? According to the teacher in this school they want to put some material in their advanced classes which looks fancy, even if it is not really practical or useful in your everyday Thai Massage practice.
The position above is really more a partner yoga technique. In Thailand partner yoga has never been practiced. However many western therapists have extensive backgrounds in yoga, partner yoga or Acro yoga, and some of them combine those skills with Thai Massage.
When to use or not to use certain techniques
This is one of those techniques which look rather impressive. However it is difficult to execute. If the client resists even a little bit or stiffens up, this can turn into a fiasco.
If you don’t get the foot position exactly right on your knees, it can feel really wobbly and unstable.
It is also difficult to do on large or heavy clients, especially when the therapist is small.
Another factor is that your average massage client probably will not feel very comfortable with this technique.
In regards to the benefits of this technique, it can be compared to the shoulder stand in yoga. However there are easier ways to do this in Thai Massage. This is one of those positions which is not very practical for the majority of clients.
You won’t put anyone into a blissful trance with this type of technique. However it might work very well on yogi-type clients who are comfortable with partner yoga style techniques.
Using partner yoga techniques in Thai Massage depends on client type
The partner yoga elements have been added to the traditional Thai Massage system by westerners. Those kinds of techniques work well if you are offering Thai Massage sessions to your yoga class students, for example. They might love them.
However if you have normal non-yogi Thai Massage clients, then these partner yoga techniques will not work well at all. For such a clientele you will get much better results if you use Thai Massage as a passive system where the therapist is doing all the work and the client doesn’t have to do anything.
That rules out many fancy, difficult, or non stable techniques. They look great on a magazine cover or in the manual of the advanced class in a Thai Massage school. They even work great on yogi-type clients.
But they will not work well with average Thai Massage clients. Actually they might scare people off from receiving or trying Thai Massage.
What works well, and what doesn’t
This is an example of a difficult, non stable technique. Here is why:
1. It requires excellent balance on the part of the therapist which not everyone has. If you lose your balance, it feels downright scary for the client.
2. It’s what I call an “all or nothing position”. Your full weight is on the client’s body. If it feels too heavy for the client, you have no way to reduce your weight unless you have ropes or bars to assist you.
3. This technique doesn’t lend itself to be integrated into a nice flow in a Thai Massage session. It can feel scary or oppressive to clients. It is better to use techniques which you can easily control and adjust.
When pictures can twist the reality of Thai Massage and Yoga
Fancy Thai Massage positions share a similarity with yoga. The fancy poses which look great as cover photos for yoga articles are generally not the ones which the average yoga practitioner can actually do.
It’s still a good idea for Thai Massage therapists to have some of those fancy partner yoga techniques in your repertoire. They might come in handy for those yogi clients.
However if you want to build a successful Thai Massage practice you will probably find that you will not use fancy techniques a lot. Often techniques which don’t look fancy at all will give you the best results.
Here is another example of a Thai Massage technique which is often seen in pictures.
It’s a neck stretch and spinal twist, and it looks really cool or even amazing.
However the truth is that it is not a very practical technique for several reasons:
1. The client has to be able to comfortably sit cross legged and with a straight back. That excludes the majority of western clients right there.
2. The client’s back is totally unsupported, making this one of the least comfortable techniques for the client.
3. The client’s hand tends to easily slip from the temple. This is about as far from a passive technique as you can get. This kind of technique fits better into a partner yoga style session than into an easy, passive, relaxing Thai Massage session.
Your average client will be more comfortable and at ease with a passive massage without tricked out positions or partner yoga moves, and will be more likely to return for more sessions.
But you never know when you will get a client who loves some of those fancy positions. For those people you can pull out all the stops. I remember I once had a client who went by the nick name of “Stretch”. He was a middle aged man and had never practiced yoga in his life.
But somehow he loved to be stretched to the extreme. His only reason for getting my Thai Massage sessions was to experience the most extreme stretches I could come up with. But he was a unique case and certainly did not represent my average clients.
The “golden rule” for Thai Massage therapists
Here is a useful rule for your Thai Massage practice.
For your average client you want to make it as easy, passive and comfortable as you can. Thai Massage is already a somewhat challenging modality.
If you want to keep and attract clients, you don’t need to make it harder than necessary by using lots of fancy, difficult, unstable or unsupported techniques. Better use techniques which can be easily controlled and adjusted.
However if you work with a yogi type, someone who is not just looking for a passive relaxing massage, then you can use some of those fancy and partner yoga-like techniques and turn your client into a pretzel.
The secret is to know the difference between those two styles and recognize which one your client belongs to. Ideally you as the Thai Massage therapist should be able to accommodate both types of clients and have an extensive repertoire of techniques in your bag of tricks.
But even if you don’t know any fancy partner yoga techniques you can still be an excellent Thai Massage therapist. After all, in Thailand, the home land of Thai Massage, partner yoga moves are never used. In conclusion it might be useful and fun to know some really fancy techniques, but it is not necessary.
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The author, Shama Kern, is the founder and director of Thai Healing Massage Academy. He has been practicing and teaching Thai Massage for 15 years. You can reach him at email@example.com